RULE #1 ZERO-SHAME POLICY
- Stop casual shames
- has shaming yourself ever mode you more productive?
- Times does not = productivity, self worth does not = productivity
- treat yourself the way you would your own biz bestie
- isnât the flexibility & freedom why you become self-employed?
- also: nothing is urgent.
RULE #2 OPTIMIZATION
- if youâre not clear on this, money ends up being your default
- be careful about what you optimize for because chances are youâll get it
- what âactuallyâ is this for for â for you?
RULE #3 CONSTRAINTS
- money constraints: what is enough?
- infinite growth is not sustainable or realistic
- work constraints: set your âbig 3â each day
- energy constraints: âdid I do my best for today?â
- time constraints: hard boundaries around time
RULE #4 LIFE > WORK
- if youâre overly invested, you ride the emotional rollercoaster every day
- detach your identity from your work completely
- diversify your identity- me and my work used to be the same circle